Tuesday 11 December 2012

A bit about Domestic Discipline

So.....my second entry! Just thought i would say a few words about Domestic Discipline for those of you who are unfamiliar with it. For us it is a normal loving relationship between a loving couple. ( there are many Domestic Discipline sites out there that can explain what Domestic Discipline is and isn't ). The only difference is that the man is in charge, kind of the same as marriages/relationships used to be in the 1950's ( hence my name). This is in no way BDSM or anything sexual to us.

It is a loving relationship with rules, structure, discipline and consequences for the woman. This does not mean that the woman is somehow a slave or has no opinion. Every decision is made by the couple, every aspect is discussed together. This is not a one sided relationship at all, in fact the level of communication in a Domestic Discipline relationship is amazing, it is, to me anyhow, the most amazing type of relationship a couple could be in. For me having a loving man in charge is a wonderful feeling.

When we started Domestic Discipline we had 23 rules. We discovered though that all these rules come under 4 things so now we just stick with those, these are know as the 4 D's,

Disrespect
Dishonesty
Disobedient
Dangerous

Again for anyone starting DD there are many sites that can help you and if anyone needs any advice i am more than happy to answer anyone's questions but please respect that we all have choices and this is a choice we have made in the way we wish to lead our lives.

I will update with more soon and tell you all about our boot camp weekend.....

Princess.

3 comments:

  1. Hi Princess. Welcome to the blogging community.
    The four categories are good ones. We use the same plus Health and we call Dangerous, Safety. Dishonesty, Disobedience, Disrespect, Safety and Health. :)

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    1. Thankyou, im enjoying blogging very much!!! Hope everyone is enjoying the site! x

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  2. Hello Princess!
    Lovely start on your blog about domestic discipline!
    Looking forward to hearing more about this wonderful lifestyle and your journey.
    Hugs
    Jack's Jill

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