SirDD and I have now been together a year yesterday and everything is great except.......I found out he lied about something. I won't go into it, it was a small thing but he knows that the one thing that I cannot stand is anyone who lies, it really is my pet hate.
So, I etxt him and told him that I found out he had lied and expected his response to be, 'i'm sorry, I know you hate liars, I love you and know this kind of thing hurts you and I will not do it again'. Alas, no, I got a load of txts saying he had not done anything wrong and what a bad nasty person I thought he was'.
What the hell..........I know from speaking to people that he hates being caught out. The lie itself isn't as important as the fact that he did it! And not admitting it even when caught out! I have no idea how to handle it, and clearly he cannot admit when he is wrong and apologise for it!
Also he tried the stop it or I will spank you remark.....so I can't voice an opinion without fear of getting spanked? How wrong is that. I find out he has lied and threatens to spank me.....using DD to his own advantage I think.
I know he cheated several times in his last marriage and even when caught out blamed it on something else, should this small lie be a warning sign to me? We are getting married next year and it would break my heart if he lied to me in the future.
Any advice would be much appreciated,