As i have been so good for such a long period, about 6 weeks now i am wondering why i am not craving a spanking? At the start of our Domestic Discipline life i used to crave spankings, I needed to feel accountable for my actions ( not always with spanking as being the punishment of course!) Then i remembered seeing an article on the net that said that once DD settles down, punishments are not used as often.
In the beginning there is obviously a lot of getting to know each other as there is in any relationship and most importantly from my point of view there is a lot of testing that happens as to how far the HOH can be pushed. Once this is clear and there is no need for testing things are bound to settle down.
This is the point we have got to now, punishments are rare, i don't play up as much as i used to and things are very settled.................this said, i am bratty by nature and i am sure this non bratty phase won't last for ever!!!
Princess x
In the beginning there is obviously a lot of getting to know each other as there is in any relationship and most importantly from my point of view there is a lot of testing that happens as to how far the HOH can be pushed. Once this is clear and there is no need for testing things are bound to settle down.
This is the point we have got to now, punishments are rare, i don't play up as much as i used to and things are very settled.................this said, i am bratty by nature and i am sure this non bratty phase won't last for ever!!!
Princess x
It seems there are a number of wives who are hitting this point at the moment. It's totally awesome, I'm really happy for you.
ReplyDeleteCallie
Thankyou Callie! It does seem that many are at this point as you say, i wonder why!
ReplyDeletePrincess x
We havent had to do punishments lately either, but sometimes I crave it (he doesnt know that). I think I crave the amount of dominance attached to the punishments rather than the punishment itself. We dont use spankings for punishment, and I genuinely HATE upsetting him. But I do find myself craving that intensity.
ReplyDeleteI feel that is normal, i certainly feel like that too. Though i do not want any punishments i feel that there is something missing sometimes.it is a strange one! I think like you i crave that dominance too.
ReplyDeletePrincess x